Not everyone will understand your situation, so opinions and advices are good to have but don’t base your judgments on them alone.
They are just supplementary knowledge and not to be used in your ingrained decision making. When an advice crashes with your created balance, think about it clearly and eliminate that advice out of the equation. If your balance is created without any imperfections, that bad advice will be marked to filter.
It is YOUR life and any decisions you make will be attached to you for the rest of your life.
Make sure they are clever and a reflection of your own personality.